About Elayne Kalila,
Soul Midwife + Legacy Catalyst
“I’ve always been on a treasure hunt to find the most extraordinary facets of people & celebrate them.”
—Elayne Kalila

Hello, love.
Thank you for being here.
Ever since the age of 13, back when I lived in England, I’ve been self-employed.
I’ve created many diverse jobs for myself—from writing and directing plays for prison inmates; to designing and implementing programs for women survivors of drug abuse and violence; to international trauma healing work; to designing and creating sacred living spaces; to founding and building an online temple of over 80,000 women; to leading women on international, sacred site retreats.
The through-line between the jobs has always been a deep yearning for ritual, sacred theatre, ceremonial transformation, magic, and possibility.
I’ve always wanted everyone to find a way to remember who they are, even if they’re the most lost they’ve ever been.
As a result, I’ve seen humanity at its best and at its worst … and I’ve learned to embrace the best and worst in myself and everyone I meet.
It’s this breadth and depth of a lifetime of entrepreneurial experience which has brought me to the place where I’m now a soul midwife.
I yearn to “suck the marrow out of life.”
I want its full-blooded kiss.
I desire the epic & the extraordinary to be revealed in the most ordinary moments.
I yearn to “suck the marrow out of life.”
I want its full-blooded kiss.
I desire the epic & the extraordinary to be revealed in the most ordinary moments.

So, it makes sense that for the past 25 years, I’ve guided and mentored spiritual women through major life initiations and rites of passage, supporting them to live authentic lives.
This includes creating and birthing the Priestess Presence Temple in 2014, where I’ve since been a soul midwife to an international sisterhood of over 80k women (and growing!), remembering who they truly are.
Now, we’re entering a global rite of passage…
…And we need new forms of leadership and governance in every area of our lives.
I believe that it’s the embodied wisdom and presence of women—with spiritual and emotional maturity—who will show us how to repair our severed relationships to the Earth, to one another, to our bodies, to our sexuality, and to our power.
And that’s why I’m here:
To support & inspire not only the clarity of your true purpose & legacy, but to catalyze you to embody it.
I’m certain that It’s through your individual, unique self maturation and mastery, that you can become a living legacy of the new world you hope to see born.
And that’s why I’m here:
To support & inspire not only the clarity of your true purpose & legacy, but to catalyze you to embody it.
I’m certain that It’s through your individual, unique self maturation and mastery, that you can become a living legacy of the new world you hope to see born.

Leadership means being fully human, fully willing to embrace your vulnerability & imperfection, while remaining rooted to your center & your fierce devotion to love.
I’m now in my 50s and moving away from the Mother archetype (phase) of my life, and stepping into a new phase: The Empress
I’ve arrived in my body. My center of gravity is more rooted and connected than ever before. I feel the power of sitting in my center and being able to not only recognize my own gifts, but actually hone and embody them.
In this maturation, I feel purposeful, in my humanity, humility, and most importantly, humor! I don’t take things so seriously … and I know that life is full of profundity!
This site, this phase of my life, is my rite of passage.
I know that…
The birthing of a new world is intimately intertwined with each one of us birthing ourselves and each other—through the traumas of the past, into the renewal and power of the present.
I know that you have an Essence gift and genius that is very much needed.

I know that…
The birthing of a new world is intimately intertwined with each one of us birthing ourselves and each other—through the traumas of the past, into the renewal and power of the present.
I know that you have an Essence gift and genius that is very much needed.